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		<title>Work in progress</title>
		<link>http://crossroad.reachthetriad.com/2010/03/work-in-progress/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 15:36:40 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Guys!</p>
<p>We&#8217;re working on a new website&#8230; in the meantime please follow us on twitter @ccot_crossroad or join our facebook group at http://www.facebook.com/#!/group.php?gid=364497595011.</p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
<p>Joel</p>
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		<title>Christmas Party &#8211; Weather</title>
		<link>http://crossroad.reachthetriad.com/2009/12/christmas-party-weather/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 17:23:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey Guys,
Christmas party is still on.  We busy cooking and prepping.  As of now there are no plans to cancel, but if you have any question, keep checking this site and I&#8217;ll update it if anything changes.
Thanks!
Joel
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Guys,</p>
<p>Christmas party is still on.  We busy cooking and prepping.  As of now there are no plans to cancel, but if you have any question, keep checking this site and I&#8217;ll update it if anything changes.</p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
<p>Joel</p>
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		<title>Bonfire!!</title>
		<link>http://crossroad.reachthetriad.com/2009/11/bonfire/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:11:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey Guys,
The bonfire turned out to be a blast!  I hope you guys had a good time, we&#8217;ll try to have some pictures up on the website by tonight.  Let me encourage you guys to take the oppurtunity to thank the Brooks for opening up their house to host the bonfire.
Lord Bless you!
jf
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Guys,</p>
<p>The bonfire turned out to be a blast!  I hope you guys had a good time, we&#8217;ll try to have some pictures up on the website by tonight.  Let me encourage you guys to take the oppurtunity to thank the Brooks for opening up their house to host the bonfire.</p>
<p>Lord Bless you!</p>
<p>jf</p>
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		<title>Thanksgiving</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 06:09:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The time will come quickly and pass quickly.  So start thinking and preparing your heart now for what you need to be thankful for.  Ask God to show you something new that you should be thankful for.  Feel free to post here what He shows you.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The time will come quickly and pass quickly.  So start thinking and preparing your heart now for what you need to be thankful for.  Ask God to show you something new that you should be thankful for.  Feel free to post here what He shows you.</p>
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		<title>Kumbaya</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 22:34:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey Guys,
At the 70s party we sang some worship songs that were popular in the 70s, one of them being &#8216;Kumbaya, My Lord&#8217;.  Being the bereans that you are, there were rightfully some questions about what Kumbaya meant.  So I thought I&#8217;d look it up and let you guys know.  At the time, it was [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Guys,</p>
<p>At the 70s party we sang some worship songs that were popular in the 70s, one of them being &#8216;Kumbaya, My Lord&#8217;.  Being the bereans that you are, there were rightfully some questions about what Kumbaya meant.  So I thought I&#8217;d look it up and let you guys know.  At the time, it was mentioned that &#8220;kumbaya&#8221; meant &#8220;come by here.&#8221;  Via a couple internet sources, I&#8217;ve confirmed this (to some degree).  The song &#8220;Kumbaya, My Lord&#8221; was sung in the early 1900&#8217;s by former slaves and is in a creole/english dialect called Gullah.</p>
<p>Probably partially because most people have no clue what it means, as well as its popularity at christian camps, it has come to be used sarcastically to ridicule Christians.  A ridicule probably well deserved for not knowing what we are singing.  Stupid on my part, as I approved of the song based on a sense of nostalgia rather than knowledge.  That being said, I can see nothing wrong with the song itself, so go now and sing kumbaya &#8217;til your heart is content.  However, if you are gathered with two or more for the purpose of singing songs to Jesus, it is pretty pointless.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span class="woj">For where two or three gather together as my followers, I am there among them.&#8221;<br />
</span><strong>Matt 18:20(NLT)</strong></em></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">JF</p>
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		<title>Flashback to the 70s</title>
		<link>http://crossroad.reachthetriad.com/2009/10/flashback-to-the-70s/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 15:37:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jfisher</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alright&#8230; this Friday is the Agape Feast &#8211; 70&#8217;s Costume Party.  Invite all your friends for food, games, a short message and some great music.  Remember, if financially able, bring something to share.  The point of an agape feast is to share food, that is special to you, with other people and to fellowship over [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alright&#8230; this Friday is the Agape Feast &#8211; 70&#8217;s Costume Party.  Invite all your friends for food, games, a short message and some great music.  Remember, if financially able, bring something to share.  The point of an agape feast is to share food, that is special to you, with other people and to fellowship over that meal, in which everyone shared in the preparation.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t wait to see your groovy threads man&#8230;.</p>
<p>jf</p>
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		<title>Wet Camping</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 15:26:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So we decided to go ahead with the camping trip, on the off chance that the weather people (very politically correct) had it all wrong.  We dined on some hot dogs, and then topped our meal off by munching on some very manly smores.  After which, we heard a great devotional from Aaron about masculinity [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So we decided to go ahead with the camping trip, on the off chance that the weather people (very politically correct) had it all wrong.  We dined on some hot dogs, and then topped our meal off by munching on some very manly smores.  After which, we heard a great devotional from Aaron about masculinity and what it means to be a Godly man.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, by 4am, it became very obvious that the forecast was on the money.  So I got the opportunity to sleep in a water-bed, thanks to a couple of guys (not mentioning any names here) who left the bottom of our tent door-flap open &#8211; thereby allowing the pouring rain to flow in, directly between Troy and myself, only to collect into a pond right beneath my sleeping bag.  Thanks guys!  By &#8216;guys&#8217; I really mean &#8216;wimps&#8217;!  I say that only because these tough guys were leaving the tent to go sleep in the van&#8230; apparently afraid they might melt from some water.  The next morning after a power breakfast of granola bars, ice cold hot dogs and PBJs, we all demonstrated our incredible athletic abilities, kicking around a wet football and attempting to decapitate each other with a hundred pound frisbee.  It eventually dawned on the brilliant leadership that the rain wasn&#8217;t going to let up, so we bailed and went to my house to play some Xbox 360.  It soon became evident that my team was the dominant call-of-duty team in the house.  Kyle and I nearly dominated the entire afternoon&#8230; and by &#8216;Kyle and I&#8217;, I really mean me&#8230; basically I had to carry Kyle the whole time!  <img src='http://crossroad.reachthetriad.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   Alas, after a significant amount of cheating Trey and Scott finally beat us in the finale.  And fun was had by all&#8230;</p>
<p>jf</p>
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		<title>The Wonderful Cross..</title>
		<link>http://crossroad.reachthetriad.com/2009/06/the-wonderful-cross/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 03:49:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wonderful&#8230; full of wonder
Whenever we read the Bible to our kids, they always want to hear the story of &#8220;God dying on the cross&#8221;.  And why not, even though at this point in my life it&#8217;s easy for me to take that for granted.  If you think about it for a sec, that&#8217;s some pretty [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderful&#8230; full of wonder</p>
<p>Whenever we read the Bible to our kids, they always want to hear the story of &#8220;God dying on the cross&#8221;.  And why not, even though at this point in my life it&#8217;s easy for me to take that for granted.  If you think about it for a sec, that&#8217;s some pretty crazy stuff we believe.  God&#8230; dying?  It kind of goes against what we think God should do.  Just one of many reasons the true and living God of the Bible is rightfully called awesome.  To know God actually understands from the first person what suffering is like and can truly comfort us when we suffer, is one of the many things that totally distinguishes Christianity from all other religions.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">See from his head, his hands, his feet<br />
Sorrow and love flow mingled down<br />
Did ever such love and sorrow meet<br />
Or thorns compose so rich a crown</span></span><br />
O the wonderful cross</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">jf</p>
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		<title>CA: Common Misconceptions(1)</title>
		<link>http://crossroad.reachthetriad.com/2009/05/ca-common-misconceptions-1/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 11:56:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jfisher</dc:creator>
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In this post, and the next couple of posts, I will attempt to comment on 4 (maybe more) common misconceptions that could stand in the way of someone accepting Jesus as their savior.
Misconception 1: Christianity must be proven scientifically; could be stated as &#8220;I&#8217;ll accept [...]]]></description>
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<p>In this post, and the next couple of posts, I will attempt to comment on 4 (maybe more) common misconceptions that could stand in the way of someone accepting Jesus as their savior.</p>
<p><strong>Misconception 1:</strong> Christianity must be proven scientifically; could be stated as &#8220;I&#8217;ll accept Christianity when you prove it with the scientific method.&#8221;</p>
<p>Just so we&#8217;re on the same page, a simple definition of the scientific method is the repeatable testing of a previously developed hypothesis in a controlled environment; it depends on things we can observe, in the present, with our senses.</p>
<p>In our Missouri-esk &#8217;show me&#8217; culture, science has almost become a religion of its own and we tend to think that if something can&#8217;t be &#8220;proven&#8221; scientifically, then it can be regarded as false or at least unknowable.  You can see this concept in practice with an argument like this: &#8220;I&#8217;ve never seen or heard of anyone who has risen from the dead, therefore Jesus, if he even existed, could not have risen from the dead.&#8221;</p>
<p>Unlike any other major world religion that I&#8217;m aware of, the central claims of Christianity <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">can</span></strong> be tested.  But because those claims are historical events, they, like all historical events, are outside of the realm of what can be tested by the scientific method.  After all, we can&#8217;t take Jesus and kill him, then bury him and see if he resurrects over and over again, any more than we can set Abe in the Ford Theater to see if Booth will shoot him over and over again.  So, how do we test historical (those that occurred before&#8230; right&#8230;now!!) events?  They,   are tested, or verified, by what Josh McDowell has called The &#8220;Legal-Historical&#8221; method.  This method of proof looks at written testimony, oral testimony and any available physical testimony, and uses them all to determine whether the tested scenario is, beyond a reasonable doubt, true or false.  Although you may not realize it, we use this method all the time.  Parents can back me up here!  We use a combination of &#8220;physical evidence&#8221; (youngest daughter holding a red marker), &#8220;oral statements&#8221; (big sister tattling) and &#8220;written testimony&#8221; (red marker marks on the furniture) to lead to the conclusion of what most likely happened.  More seriously though, the use of this method enables us to know with some certainty the truth about our country&#8217;s origin, have a functional justice system and have at least some hope that what we read or hear in the news has some modicum of truth to it.</p>
<p>Go ahead&#8230; lose yourself in this courtroom drama as I attempt to show that scientific (physical) evidence is not very useful, by itself, in determining the truth about events from the past.</p>
<p><em>&#8230; the defense enters a not guilty plea, and calls a witness to the stand who testifies that the accused was out of town on the day in question, so he (the accused) could not be guilty of the crime.  During his cross examination, the prosecutor submits as evidence the results from the lab, hot of the printer, that clearly show that the defendant’s DNA was found on the samples gathered from the victim, by the police.  Feeling that he has the jury sold, he says to the witness, while scanning the faces of the jury  &#8220;One last question. Were you with him while he was supposedly &#8216;out of town&#8217;&#8221;?  &#8220;No?!?&#8221; He exclaims in faux shock, after the witness responded.  &#8220;Then obviously you don&#8217;t really know where he was, do you?&#8221;  Then quietly as he confidently strolls back to his seat, he says &#8220;you can&#8217;t trust him anyway, they’re best friends.&#8221; </em></p>
<p><em>Gauging by his smugness, there was no doubt, in his mind at least, that he had successfully undermined the credibility of this witness.  &#8230; After nearly falling asleep while the prosecutor described, in his closing arguments, the minuscule likelihood that the DNA could possibly be anyone&#8217;s but the accused, and that the DNA results support the victim’s accusation, the jury almost collectively jumped out of the jury box when the court room doors banged open, Perry Mason style! (google it yougens)  An assistant for the defense sprints toward the defendant&#8217;s table and chucks a folder at the lawyer.  The lawyer peeks inside&#8230; a DVD!?! a scrap of paper and a few black and white photos?!?!?  Hoping his assistant hasn&#8217;t been smokin&#8217; wacky baccy, again, he asks the court to play the video.   It&#8217;s a recording of man who is a friend of both the victim and the accused,  stating (</em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>oral</strong><strong> testimony</strong></span><em>) that the victim and the accused have been in a short term, intimate, relationship just prior to the incident.  Nodding in approval toward his assistant, he sees his assistant excitedly pointing to the piece of paper.   He looks… Bingo!!!  There&#8217;s an ATM receipt (</em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>written testimony</strong></span>)<em> from the defendants card documenting a withdrawal in his mom&#8217;s home town, and photos from the ATM machine timestamped the same day and time as the alleged crime.  CASE CLOSED!!!  Not Guilty!!!</em></p>
<p><strong>DISCLAIMER:</strong> Sadly, no lawyers where harmed in the making of this short story.</p>
<p>So, other than my impeccable ignorance of courtroom procedure, what I attempted to demonstrate, with this beautifully written short story, is that while the DNA results can show that it’s highly likely that <em>something</em> happened between the victim and the accused, the actual relevance of that bit of evidence, in relation to reaching a satisfactory conclusion to the trial, was next to nil.  Scientific facts, on their own, can’t tell us much about the past, whether yesterday or two millennia ago.</p>
<p>So while archeology, textual criticism and other scientific disciplines can be useful in strengthening the case, for or against the claim, of an ancient historical event being true, they just don&#8217;t carry near the same evidential weight as a trustworthy written testimony.  And while you can&#8217;t prove, absolutely, the veracity of anything historical, the amount of written testimony we have regarding the life, death, burial and resurrection of Jesus far exceeds that available for any other known ancient historical event.  If we can not &#8220;know&#8221; that these events (in the life of Jesus) happened, then it is impossible to &#8220;know&#8221; anything about anything, that happened in the past, and we might as well stop wasting our time trying.  So the question then becomes, can we trust that the Bible we have today is an accurate copy of the original &#8220;books&#8221;?  Can we trust what was written in those books, are accurate recordings of real historical events?</p>
<p>Down the road at some point, Lord willing, I plan to try and give my take on those two questions.  But suffice it to say for now, that the trustworthiness of the Bible is in a category of its own, compared to all other ancient documents.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love to discuss this further, so please feel free to comment.</p>
<p>The second misconception I plan to get into is stated like, &#8220;I can&#8217;t accept Christianity, because there isn&#8217;t enough evidence for me to be 100% sure that it is true.&#8221;</p>
<p>Lord Bless you,</p>
<p>joel</p>
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		<title>April &#8216;09 Agape Feast</title>
		<link>http://crossroad.reachthetriad.com/2009/04/april-09-agape-feast/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 18:24:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jfisher</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey Guys,
Ok, the agape feast is this Friday&#8230;  don&#8217;t forget to bring something.  Drinks, side dish, main dish or dessert.  The &#8220;theme&#8221; is South African, but if you don&#8217;t want to try a new recipe just bring a favorite.  If you can&#8217;t bring something, no problem, there will be plenty just come for the fellowship.
We [...]]]></description>
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<p>Ok, the agape feast is this Friday&#8230;  don&#8217;t forget to bring something.  Drinks, side dish, main dish or dessert.  The &#8220;theme&#8221; is South African, but if you don&#8217;t want to try a new recipe just bring a favorite.  If you can&#8217;t bring something, no problem, there will be plenty just come for the fellowship.</p>
<p>We have a couple of folks at Calvary that are from South Africa, and they will be giving a small presentation.</p>
<p>See you there!</p>
<p>joel</p>
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